Upgrade our CLI CI to use the new `create-react-native-library` for creating a RN lib project

[jonthysell]

This is necessary because this old create-react-native-module module now no longer creates working android code (as of this integrate), which prevents react-native config from running successfully, which breaks run-windows.

Originally posted by @jonthysell in #12165 (comment)

[jonthysell]

Also we'll want to update our documentation to match.

[jonthysell]

We've already moved to the new command for Fabric - the move to a hybrid template going forward will remove the needs for this.