data index inconsistent after DDL owner change (such as upgrade the cluster)

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Bug Report

Please answer these questions before submitting your issue. Thanks!

1. Minimal reproduce step (Required)

1. deploy a cluter with 3 tidb instance
2. create a partition table and insert some data
3. add index for the table use ingest mode.
4. during add index, upgrade the cluster
5. after cluster upgraded, admin check index

2. What did you expect to see? (Required)

1. after upgreade, the add index ddl will be synced
2. admin check index ok

3. What did you see instead (Required)

1. add index ddl synced but admin check index failed

error="[admin:8003]table count 10000800 != index(idx1) count 4666669"

4. What is your TiDB version? (Required)

before

Release Version: v7.1.0
Edition: Community
Git Commit Hash: 2fa77070730236c65e98b3356cef83c2ca7f2754
Git Branch: heads/refs/tags/v7.1.0
UTC Build Time: 2023-05-29 05:19:30
GoVersion: go1.20.3
Race Enabled: false
TiKV Min Version: 6.2.0-alpha
Check Table Before Drop: false
Store: unistore

after

MySQL [(none)]> select tidb_version();
+----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
| tidb_version()                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           |
+----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
| Release Version: v7.2.0-alpha
Edition: Community
Git Commit Hash: 3b045805a7b131a635422c9d031da3241d136aeb
Git Branch: heads/refs/tags/v7.2.0-alpha
UTC Build Time: 2023-05-30 04:15:06