ROX-32346: Bump ESO to v1.2.1

[kovayur]

Description

• Update the External Secrets Operator to v1.2.1
• Disable the External DNS Operator for crc
• Disable VPA by default for local clusters

Checklist (Definition of Done)

• Unit and integration tests added
• Added test description under Test manual
• Documentation added if necessary (i.e. changes to dev setup, test execution, ...)
• CI and all relevant tests are passing
• Add the ticket number to the PR title if available, i.e. ROX-12345: ...
• Discussed security and business related topics privately. Will move any security and business related topics that arise to private communication channel.
• Add secret to app-interface Vault or Secrets Manager if necessary
• RDS changes were e2e tested manually
• Check AWS limits are reasonable for changes provisioning new resources

Test manual

TODO: Add manual testing efforts

# To run tests locally run:
make db/teardown db/setup db/migrate
make ocm/setup
make verify lint binary test test/integration

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