ui: make progress bars respect --quiet

[casperdcl]

• change to no_progress_bar=None default instead of False
  • this respects automatic logger.getEffectiveLevel() logic
• fix a couple of other places missing automatic logic
• perhaps add test
• perhaps treat disable=False the same as disable=None instead
• fixes dvc push -q is not completely quiet, shows file transfer tqdm progress bars #3314
• related UI progress #3060

[casperdcl]

<comment moved to separate issue #3332>

[casperdcl]

@efiop I think this is good to merge. I don't think it's worth reverting the no_progress_bar=None changes as I intend removing most of them in a future PR (see #3332).

[efiop]

Thanks!