fix: add jsx dev runtime to optimizeDeps

[ArnaudBarre]

Rollback part of the change from #132 because it makes cold start slower for storybook. Two differences from what is actually published:

• We don't force the default for esbuild. This allow TS only projects to handle multiple jsx runtime. It's very edge case, but doesn't cost anything to let it open because 'react' is also the default for esbuild.
• We take into account the option for optimizeDeps so that works for other runtimes