add python 3.13, drop 3.10 from testing matrix

[mikemhenry]

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[mikemhenry]

this dupes #1373 but I know that we will need to fix some things python 3.13 deprecates so I wanted a place I can play around with that

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✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 93.20%. Comparing base (9974040) to head (74b5b8a).
⚠️ Report is 132 commits behind head on main.

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No API break detected ✅

[atravitz]

closing since #1373 is merged and addresses this. @mikemhenry please re-open if there's anything else you want to investigate here!