Provide defaults for TableColumnLayout if options aren't provided

[LFDanLu]

Closes

Found when writing the aria table resizing component, currently crashes when getDefaultWidth/getDefaultMinWidth aren't provided even though they are optional

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
• Added/updated unit tests and storybook for this change (for new code or code which already has tests).
• Filled out test instructions.
• Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
• Looked at the Accessibility Practices for this feature - Aria Practices

📝 Test Instructions:

Sanity test resizing examples. Otherwise the test should cover the case where the user doesn't actually provide any options (specifically getDefaultWidth and getDefaultMinWidth) to TableColumnLayout via useTableColumnResizeState

🧢 Your Project:

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[reidbarber]

LGTM

[snowystinger]

Looks right, covers both the hook and the TableLayout

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## API Changes

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