[C++] Minimal build failed in crossbow because of zstd v1.5.4 requires CMake v3.18

[mapleFU]

Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

After patch #34114 is merged, crossbow CI was broken: https://github.com/ursacomputing/crossbow/actions/runs/4153851721/jobs/7185765610#step:3:1131

This is because zstd v1.5.4 introduce CheckLinkerFlag, which is introduced in facebook/zstd#3392 . And our crossbow CI install cmake 3.16, which didn't support it.

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[mapleFU]

@kou

[mapleFU]

Also an issue here: facebook/zstd#3500

[kou]

We can require CMake 3.13 or 3.16 since 12.0.0 (see #33800 ) but it doesn't solve this.

Could you add a CMake version check like https://github.com/apache/arrow/blob/master/cpp/cmake_modules/ThirdpartyToolchain.cmake#L1539-L1542 ?

[mapleFU]

@kou https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/34149/files