[R] Windows R build fails

[icexelloss]

Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

An issue with build R on windows is introduced by #34711:

#34711 (comment)

Component(s)

R

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The other R errors also seem related:

** testing if installed package can be loaded from temporary location
Error: package or namespace load failed for ‘arrow’ in dyn.load(file, DLLpath = DLLpath, ...):
unable to load shared object '/Users/voltrondata/github-actions-runner/_work/crossbow/crossbow/arrow/r/check/arrow.Rcheck/00LOCK-arrow/00new/arrow/libs/arrow.so':
dlopen(/Users/voltrondata/github-actions-runner/_work/crossbow/crossbow/arrow/r/check/arrow.Rcheck/00LOCK-arrow/00new/arrow/libs/arrow.so, 6): Symbol not found: __ZN5arrow5acero7MapNode13InputFinishedEPNS0_8ExecNodeEi
Referenced from: /Users/voltrondata/github-actions-runner/_work/crossbow/crossbow/arrow/r/check/arrow.Rcheck/00LOCK-arrow/00new/arrow/libs/arrow.so
Expected in: flat namespace