[Java] Update Maven project details

[laurentgo]

Describe the enhancement requested

Follow up of the conversation at #43191

Information generated and published to Apache Maven repository/Maven Central is either missing or incorrect:

• Modules under maven/ and bom/ directories do not have project url, mailing list, scm and issue management links
• Children modules have incorrect project and scm urls as Maven appends by default the name of the name of the artifact to the url from the parent module
• ${project.scm.tag} hasn't been updated and is still apache-arrow-2.0.0

Component(s)

Java

[lidavidm]

Issue resolved by pull request 43231
#43231