Add publish timout param when exec insert

[liutang123]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
In our cluster, some user exec select immediately after insert.

insert into tableA select tableB;
insert into tableC select tableA;

Now, FE will wait 10 seconds at most after transaction commited. Sometimes, publishing takes more than 10 seconds. So, client cannot see the data just inserted.

Describe the solution you'd like
Add a param to control the time to wait publish.