[Enhancement](delete) eliminate reading the old values of non-key columns for delete stmt

[bobhan1]

Proposed changes

Currently, when executing insert into select statement converted from a delete statement, doris will try to read all the values of the non-key columns from the previous rows with the same key in storage layer, which is highly costly and meaningless.
For example, for a table with the following schema

CREATE TABLE test (
    `k1` int NOT NULL,
    `c1` int,
    `c2` int,
    `c3` int,
    `c4` int)
UNIQUE KEY(`k1`) DISTRIBUTED BY HASH(`k1`) BUCKETS 1
PROPERTIES("enable_unique_key_merge_on_write" = "true")

and data

k1,c1,c2,c3,c4
1,1,1,1,1
2,2,2,2,2
3,3,3,3,3
4,4,4,4,4
5,5,5,5,5

after execute some delete statement(which is transformed to insert into select statement) that delete rows with k1=1,2,3, the data with delete_sign column will be like

k1,c1,c2,c3,c4,__DORIS_DELETE_SIGN__
1,1,1,1,1,0
2,2,2,2,2,0
3,3,3,3,3,0
4,4,4,4,4,0
5,5,5,5,5,0
1,1,1,1,1,1
2,2,2,2,2,1
3,3,3,3,3,1

It's evitable that it reads lots of useless data. So this PR eliminates the above process and use default or null value to fill the non-key columns when inserting rows with marked delete sign, since the values in these columns are useless and will not be read.

Further comments

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[bobhan1]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.36 seconds
stream load tsv: 506 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 140 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.6 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 337K ops/s
storage size: 17166804879 Bytes

[bobhan1]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.4 seconds
stream load tsv: 505 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 141 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 30 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 27 MB/s
insert into select: 29.0 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 344K ops/s
storage size: 17169927022 Bytes

[bobhan1]

run p0

[bobhan1]

run p0

[bobhan1]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[bobhan1]

run arm

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.19 seconds
stream load tsv: 509 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 140 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.4 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 340K ops/s
storage size: 17168762914 Bytes

[bobhan1]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.02 seconds
stream load tsv: 507 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 140 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.2 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 342K ops/s
storage size: 17161308750 Bytes

[bobhan1]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.58 seconds
stream load tsv: 508 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 140 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 29.6 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 337K ops/s
storage size: 17161006017 Bytes

[bobhan1]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[zhannngchen]

LGTM

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.

[bobhan1]

run clickbench

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 44.82 seconds
stream load tsv: 506 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 140 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.2 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 342K ops/s
storage size: 17169997476 Bytes

[liaoxin01]

LGTM