[fix](Nereids) init Date/DateV2Literal should check non-zero time fields

[morrySnow]

check picked from master
PR: #24971
commit id: 63b283a

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

Further comments

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[xiaokang]

run buildall

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 50.86 seconds
stream load tsv: 555 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 128 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 29.6 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 337K ops/s
storage size: 17162194868 Bytes