branch-3.0: [feat](doris compose) diff user use diff start subnet #41996

[yujun777]

What problem does this PR solve?

If users use different LOCAL_DORIS_PATH, their clusters' network maybe conflict. So let different user use different searched start subnet.

cherry-pick: #41996

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[yujun777]

run buildall

[yujun777]

run buildall