branch-3.0: [fix](metaCache)fix bug that names cache can not invalidate. #46287

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Cherry-picked from #46287

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run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 41397 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit c2373d3a978a9db50f0d1338f0774b88f82690b7, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17653	7467	7344	7344
q2	2061	171	170	170
q3	10548	1126	1147	1126
q4	10436	719	785	719
q5	7876	2895	2863	2863
q6	244	147	151	147
q7	993	639	620	620
q8	9615	2012	2079	2012
q9	6781	6597	6565	6565
q10	7439	2280	2333	2280
q11	473	258	273	258
q12	434	217	217	217
q13	17794	2987	3004	2987
q14	248	205	214	205
q15	575	514	536	514
q16	695	629	626	626
q17	972	587	536	536
q18	7238	6678	6752	6678
q19	1402	1023	1235	1023
q20	496	201	191	191
q21	4021	3323	3398	3323
q22	1120	993	1010	993
Total cold run time: 109114 ms
Total hot run time: 41397 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7358	7305	7289	7289
q2	326	230	230	230
q3	3094	3011	2976	2976
q4	2093	1787	1853	1787
q5	5713	5643	5729	5643
q6	226	136	136	136
q7	2238	1838	1815	1815
q8	3356	3538	3498	3498
q9	8902	8895	8821	8821
q10	3615	3529	3575	3529
q11	602	505	500	500
q12	827	575	619	575
q13	7388	3215	3142	3142
q14	285	269	276	269
q15	556	516	512	512
q16	710	659	645	645
q17	1793	1581	1551	1551
q18	7697	7552	7514	7514
q19	1660	1548	1565	1548
q20	2059	1804	1812	1804
q21	5469	5109	5271	5109
q22	1097	1028	1007	1007
Total cold run time: 67064 ms
Total hot run time: 59900 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 191298 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit c2373d3a978a9db50f0d1338f0774b88f82690b7, data reload: false

query1	959	370	367	367
query2	6509	2101	2116	2101
query3	6715	216	219	216
query4	33919	23618	23404	23404
query5	4392	459	456	456
query6	282	172	164	164
query7	4617	303	305	303
query8	283	210	222	210
query9	9446	2663	2657	2657
query10	479	259	257	257
query11	18179	15071	15120	15071
query12	152	100	99	99
query13	1639	419	433	419
query14	10338	7372	7034	7034
query15	310	172	179	172
query16	8208	491	487	487
query17	1700	565	565	565
query18	2272	321	318	318
query19	362	159	154	154
query20	118	107	108	107
query21	63	46	48	46
query22	4670	4234	4415	4234
query23	34756	33974	34090	33974
query24	11181	2835	2917	2835
query25	657	406	419	406
query26	1420	174	169	169
query27	2803	299	305	299
query28	8089	2425	2417	2417
query29	905	441	430	430
query30	338	164	168	164
query31	1006	809	837	809
query32	102	57	58	57
query33	774	283	272	272
query34	969	494	508	494
query35	920	739	722	722
query36	1085	931	949	931
query37	141	72	70	70
query38	3998	3921	3919	3919
query39	1463	1416	1434	1416
query40	215	80	82	80
query41	55	48	49	48
query42	113	97	102	97
query43	525	473	507	473
query44	1249	805	811	805
query45	178	169	174	169
query46	1135	702	717	702
query47	1929	1870	1865	1865
query48	452	381	370	370
query49	1159	391	406	391
query50	813	411	417	411
query51	7247	7137	7091	7091
query52	100	95	85	85
query53	251	177	186	177
query54	1172	452	452	452
query55	76	81	78	78
query56	261	250	231	231
query57	1221	1136	1102	1102
query58	234	209	206	206
query59	3274	2991	3037	2991
query60	282	260	248	248
query61	113	106	108	106
query62	884	659	666	659
query63	215	191	186	186
query64	5465	661	625	625
query65	3271	3196	3184	3184
query66	1437	313	316	313
query67	16033	15490	15828	15490
query68	4718	574	587	574
query69	444	273	262	262
query70	1201	1120	1063	1063
query71	328	251	250	250
query72	6523	3997	4046	3997
query73	752	341	346	341
query74	10282	9091	8905	8905
query75	3384	2632	2669	2632
query76	2911	1110	1067	1067
query77	373	272	272	272
query78	10359	9649	9659	9649
query79	1307	596	594	594
query80	857	433	442	433
query81	532	249	243	243
query82	1262	116	113	113
query83	209	150	139	139
query84	238	76	76	76
query85	1164	302	283	283
query86	344	301	281	281
query87	4309	4223	4278	4223
query88	3526	2416	2378	2378
query89	403	288	310	288
query90	2016	184	185	184
query91	182	149	150	149
query92	59	49	52	49
query93	1062	546	527	527
query94	782	268	256	256
query95	355	252	255	252
query96	606	287	275	275
query97	3351	3206	3199	3199
query98	230	212	198	198
query99	1528	1286	1311	1286
Total cold run time: 301175 ms
Total hot run time: 191298 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 33.05 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit c2373d3a978a9db50f0d1338f0774b88f82690b7, data reload: false

query1	0.03	0.03	0.03
query2	0.07	0.02	0.04
query3	0.24	0.06	0.06
query4	1.64	0.10	0.10
query5	0.52	0.50	0.51
query6	1.14	0.72	0.72
query7	0.02	0.02	0.02
query8	0.05	0.04	0.03
query9	0.56	0.49	0.49
query10	0.56	0.55	0.57
query11	0.14	0.10	0.10
query12	0.14	0.12	0.12
query13	0.62	0.60	0.59
query14	2.93	2.91	2.95
query15	0.91	0.82	0.81
query16	0.39	0.40	0.39
query17	1.08	1.02	1.05
query18	0.23	0.21	0.21
query19	1.93	1.92	2.02
query20	0.01	0.01	0.02
query21	15.36	0.61	0.59
query22	2.18	1.97	1.74
query23	16.94	0.84	0.66
query24	3.31	1.26	1.48
query25	0.17	0.17	0.19
query26	0.44	0.13	0.14
query27	0.05	0.04	0.03
query28	9.80	1.10	1.06
query29	12.63	3.22	3.16
query30	0.26	0.06	0.06
query31	2.88	0.39	0.39
query32	3.26	0.47	0.46
query33	2.96	3.05	3.10
query34	16.91	4.44	4.45
query35	4.51	4.52	4.47
query36	0.67	0.51	0.48
query37	0.09	0.06	0.06
query38	0.05	0.03	0.03
query39	0.03	0.02	0.02
query40	0.16	0.12	0.12
query41	0.08	0.03	0.02
query42	0.03	0.02	0.02
query43	0.04	0.03	0.03
Total cold run time: 106.02 s
Total hot run time: 33.05 s