branch-3.0: [feat](nereids) Add session variable enable_insert_value_auto_cast for insert value truncate long string #55325

[yujun777]

cherry pick from #55325

[yujun777]

run buildall

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[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 39905 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 9c3407f1a7d1ce56adc754fac94793fed6ae01b5, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17627	7033	6627	6627
q2	2027	216	195	195
q3	10467	1131	1143	1131
q4	10203	735	735	735
q5	7725	2833	2793	2793
q6	212	132	132	132
q7	981	625	599	599
q8	9333	1966	2037	1966
q9	6725	6382	6446	6382
q10	7039	2265	2271	2265
q11	460	266	252	252
q12	393	211	212	211
q13	17778	2998	2974	2974
q14	239	212	213	212
q15	506	469	450	450
q16	540	383	388	383
q17	990	551	623	551
q18	7281	6705	6731	6705
q19	1398	1044	1011	1011
q20	462	201	201	201
q21	4087	3235	3127	3127
q22	1110	1003	1046	1003
Total cold run time: 107583 ms
Total hot run time: 39905 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	6572	6556	6551	6551
q2	336	228	245	228
q3	2882	2939	2963	2939
q4	2043	1810	1805	1805
q5	5722	5786	5703	5703
q6	215	124	129	124
q7	2222	1748	1826	1748
q8	3396	3503	3595	3503
q9	8718	8950	8888	8888
q10	3551	3530	3539	3530
q11	597	480	490	480
q12	813	597	598	597
q13	8885	3233	3150	3150
q14	303	267	284	267
q15	509	462	461	461
q16	498	445	434	434
q17	1850	1645	1621	1621
q18	8184	7705	7777	7705
q19	1689	1637	1487	1487
q20	2064	1884	1876	1876
q21	5155	4948	4981	4948
q22	1135	1051	1028	1028
Total cold run time: 67339 ms
Total hot run time: 59073 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 192142 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 9c3407f1a7d1ce56adc754fac94793fed6ae01b5, data reload: false

query1	989	374	378	374
query2	6232	1883	1880	1880
query3	8705	207	203	203
query4	33761	23602	23730	23602
query5	3379	458	439	439
query6	274	186	172	172
query7	4219	311	317	311
query8	287	214	248	214
query9	9550	2596	2589	2589
query10	478	265	272	265
query11	18010	15319	15596	15319
query12	147	105	101	101
query13	1572	444	426	426
query14	8711	7288	6524	6524
query15	249	172	172	172
query16	7988	499	487	487
query17	1623	647	595	595
query18	2099	345	332	332
query19	214	164	164	164
query20	123	118	114	114
query21	212	106	105	105
query22	4874	4608	4424	4424
query23	35369	34387	33891	33891
query24	11901	2942	2959	2942
query25	711	436	425	425
query26	1817	175	172	172
query27	3118	358	360	358
query28	7890	2189	2153	2153
query29	1062	471	481	471
query30	281	170	158	158
query31	1072	832	848	832
query32	102	59	62	59
query33	786	322	333	322
query34	985	527	522	522
query35	867	720	731	720
query36	1104	962	945	945
query37	272	71	64	64
query38	4059	3936	3950	3936
query39	1532	1483	1485	1483
query40	258	100	107	100
query41	55	50	50	50
query42	122	102	108	102
query43	519	480	469	469
query44	1252	820	809	809
query45	183	175	190	175
query46	1152	743	729	729
query47	2034	1943	1960	1943
query48	485	400	411	400
query49	1165	380	388	380
query50	826	420	424	420
query51	7404	7224	7254	7224
query52	105	91	92	91
query53	260	183	186	183
query54	1285	502	473	473
query55	78	78	75	75
query56	290	241	248	241
query57	1362	1246	1210	1210
query58	234	204	219	204
query59	3249	2997	2992	2992
query60	293	275	259	259
query61	111	111	110	110
query62	869	673	676	673
query63	222	203	196	196
query64	5289	666	649	649
query65	3407	3301	3311	3301
query66	1377	295	296	295
query67	16453	15673	15879	15673
query68	4779	572	581	572
query69	447	271	269	269
query70	1166	1076	1025	1025
query71	364	254	254	254
query72	6175	4125	4040	4040
query73	775	355	356	355
query74	10613	9337	8991	8991
query75	3385	2654	2632	2632
query76	2744	1035	1013	1013
query77	393	284	267	267
query78	10792	9654	9560	9560
query79	2416	609	611	609
query80	1113	430	433	430
query81	537	218	222	218
query82	621	88	87	87
query83	237	152	142	142
query84	240	73	79	73
query85	1434	321	298	298
query86	468	298	303	298
query87	4408	4199	4308	4199
query88	4181	2519	2407	2407
query89	405	295	295	295
query90	1994	187	186	186
query91	191	175	151	151
query92	62	49	50	49
query93	2390	563	561	561
query94	914	299	302	299
query95	363	260	260	260
query96	619	286	283	283
query97	3317	3152	3184	3152
query98	220	198	192	192
query99	1482	1284	1290	1284
Total cold run time: 306208 ms
Total hot run time: 192142 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 29.47 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 9c3407f1a7d1ce56adc754fac94793fed6ae01b5, data reload: false

query1	0.04	0.03	0.03
query2	0.07	0.03	0.03
query3	0.23	0.06	0.06
query4	1.63	0.10	0.11
query5	0.60	0.51	0.52
query6	1.14	0.74	0.74
query7	0.03	0.02	0.01
query8	0.04	0.03	0.03
query9	0.57	0.49	0.50
query10	0.56	0.55	0.55
query11	0.13	0.10	0.10
query12	0.14	0.11	0.11
query13	0.61	0.60	0.60
query14	0.77	0.79	0.79
query15	0.84	0.83	0.82
query16	0.39	0.41	0.38
query17	1.05	1.08	1.04
query18	0.23	0.22	0.22
query19	1.87	1.71	1.75
query20	0.01	0.01	0.01
query21	15.37	0.58	0.59
query22	2.60	2.19	1.26
query23	17.00	0.93	0.91
query24	3.02	0.61	1.35
query25	0.13	0.09	0.10
query26	0.60	0.15	0.13
query27	0.04	0.05	0.03
query28	10.76	0.48	0.49
query29	12.56	3.23	3.22
query30	0.24	0.06	0.06
query31	2.87	0.38	0.38
query32	3.25	0.46	0.46
query33	3.02	3.02	3.02
query34	16.96	4.53	4.55
query35	4.62	4.62	4.59
query36	0.64	0.50	0.48
query37	0.09	0.06	0.06
query38	0.04	0.04	0.03
query39	0.03	0.02	0.02
query40	0.16	0.12	0.12
query41	0.08	0.02	0.02
query42	0.03	0.03	0.02
query43	0.04	0.04	0.04
Total cold run time: 105.1 s
Total hot run time: 29.47 s

[dataroaring]

LGTM

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.