[improve][fn] Make producer cache bounded and expiring in Functions/Connectors

[lhotari]

Motivation

In Pulsar Functions and Pulsar IO Connectors, there's a Pulsar Producer cache, that
doesn't expire the producers and doesn't have a maximum size.
This is a problem for functions/connectors that produce to a large number of topics.

Modifications

• Extract common ProducerCache
  • common Producer cache with separate cache areas for
    • producers created by calling Context, SinkContext, SourceContext methods
    • producers created in Pulsar Sources
      • multiple topics are possible by returning destination topics by SinkRecord.getDestinationTopic call
• Keep backwards compatibility on the cache key
  • useThreadLocalProducers will use the Thread's ID as part of the key so that each thread has it's own isolated producer
  • In Sources, the SinkRecord.getPartitionId() is used as part of the cache key
• Cache size is limited by the number of partitions in the producer
  • Default limit of the cache is 10000 partitions in total. Older entries will get removed from the cache if the cache overflows
• Default cache entry expiration in 300 seconds after last access

Documentation

• doc
• doc-required
• doc-not-needed
• doc-complete

[lhotari]

There's also #22950 improving code and fixing bugs in this area.