Fix IndexError with DeepSpeed ZeRO-3 when kernels rotary is active

[ArthurZucker]

Summary

Fixes #45137. Re-opened from #45395 on a same-repo branch so CI can run.

Since #41147, attention layers are decorated with @use_kernelized_func(apply_rotary_pos_emb) which attaches a rotary_fn child nn.Module at init when the kernels library is available. DeepSpeed ZeRO-3's parameter coordinator traces the module graph at init and expects every registered submodule to fire during forward. The attention forward still calls the plain Python apply_rotary_pos_emb, so rotary_fn is never invoked and the parameter-fetch trace desynchronizes, raising:

IndexError: pop from an empty deque
  at deepspeed/runtime/zero/partitioned_param_coordinator.py

on the second forward (reproducible via TRL's RLOO/GRPO trainers under ZeRO-3, see huggingface/trl#4899).

Fix

Skip attaching the kernelized submodule when is_deepspeed_zero3_enabled() is true. Under ZeRO-3 the Python apply_rotary_pos_emb path is used (same behavior as before #41147). Non-ZeRO-3 users are unaffected.

The second commit refreshes dates on three model cards (pp_chart2table, slanext, uvdoc) that were missing them on main — required for check-repository-consistency to pass.

Test plan

• Reproducer from RLOO and GRPO failing with ZeRO3: IndexError: pop from an empty deque trl#4899 no longer raises IndexError: pop from an empty deque
• Qwen3 forward + kernelize still replaces rotary_fn when not under ZeRO-3
• make style + check-repository-consistency pass

[vasqu]

Discussed internally: Disables kernels for deepspeed for now but that's better than no working version at all

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