App delegate fixes for macOS

[HeyImChris]

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Summary

Pull in some AppDelegate changes we need for 0.63 to run properly

Changelog

[macOS] [Bug] - AppDelegate latest updates

Test Plan

I checked that some props are now getting set properly. This change makes macOS analogous to iOS which works in 0.63. I launched the test app and clicked through some screens like Button, ActivityIndicator, and DarkMode to make sure everything is loaded properly.

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